If you’re gearing up to start college soon, first off, congrats! It’s a huge step, and yeah, it can feel overwhelming. I’ve been there, and I totally get it. I’ve recently finished my freshman year and looking back, there are so many things I wish I’d done before freshman year started. So, here’s a no-fluff list of real advice to help you prepare for college the smart way.

 1. Learn How to Learn

College isn’t just harder high school. Professors won’t chase you down if you miss a deadline, it’s all on you. The biggest upgrade I made was learning how to:

  • Take solid notes
  • Study smarter (active recall > rereading)
  • Use office hours (even when I wasn’t struggling — it builds relationships)

Having a good student, professor relationship is something that will help you excel in you academic career.

 2. Know Where Your Money’s Going

Money disappears fast in college, trust me. I spent a lot more money then I ever planned to my freshman year at college.

  • Set a basic budget: this will help with not overspending.
  • Use your meal plan wisely: Some colleges have unlimited meal swipes. For those that don’t make sure that you are using your swipes responsibly. You don’t want to run out before your semester ends!
  • Apply for on-campus jobs early (they fill up fast, and they’re more flexible than off-campus ones)

 3. Talk to People — Even If You’re Shy

College can feel lonely at first. The best thing I did was say “yes” more during the first month.

  • Join a club, even if you’re not sure you’ll stick with it
  • Talk to people in your dorm. Just simply leaving your door open so people can come in and say hi will help make it feel less awkward in the dorms.
  • Go to orientation events — cheesy but worth it. I met some of my best friends by going to orientation events!

 4. Mental Health > GPA

This one’s personal: I burned out hard my first year because I thought grinding 24/7 = success. It doesn’t. Take care of yourself.

  • Use your campus counseling center (they’re free and confidential)
  • Build rest into your schedule (yes, schedule breaks)
  • Don’t tie your worth to your grades — you’re more than your GPA. I know being in college it’s hard but just know you’re doing great!

 Mental reset: One “bad” semester doesn’t define you. You’ve got time to grow and learn.

Final Words: It’s Okay Not to Know Everything

You’re not supposed to have it all figured out. College is where you explore, mess up, and learn, about your major, the world, and yourself. Take it one step at a time, ask for help when you need it, and don’t forget to enjoy the little moments (like midnight pizza runs or spontaneous road trips).

You’ve got this.